Getting a sugar mummy is not as difficult as you may think. It all depends on the work you’re willing to put in and how much luck you may have to get the right woman that will make life easy for you for the short term before she eventually makes it miserable for you in the long run.

A sugar mummy is mostly a middle-aged woman, who is mostly rich or in the upper-middle class of society, lonely and mostly depressed. This sort of women spent their youthful age climbing the social ladder, making money and being famous. This are women who have achieved mostly all they want in life, except sweet, energetic, well endowed young men of their middle the to late twenties to early thirties, to give them fun, the best of sexual ecstasy, for as long as they want. And as long as the said young man keeps making them feel this way, he would be rewarded with cash or gift items.

Places to find this woman is pretty easy too. Some will be the one to find you if you’re what they need. You can also find them on the internet on sugarmummyapp.com, social media and even through referrals. I have seen groups on social media and even blogs whose job is to connect young men to older women…I don’t know how effective they are, I never tried and I never will. And this doesn’t make me a saint neither does it make you a sinner…. I’m not the judge here.

The world is a very big market and its surprising what one could actually buy with money.

After graduation, I was jobless for a while, I’m still looking for a better job anyway :). I use to think that I would fall in love with a rich girl who will give me anything I ask for: pay my bills, give me some money to flirt etc. Sort of like a sugar mummy. and it was all a fantasy, I didn’t take action neither did it happen. Bad luck maybe, maybe because Deep down I know it’s not what I really want.

I understand things are hard right now here in the country, and the little money that come to us is shared and spread so thin. When we get a phone call it is mostly the family calling: either they are asking for money or to complain about something that will require your time and resources. It is depressing because it’s more like a continuous thing, a way of life.

It is difficult to share when you don’t have much even for yourself and it is more difficult when you can not help those you are supposed to due to poverty.

The same reason which drove some young Nigerians to go into scams is the same reason they either hook up or wanting to hook up with a woman who will make them rich. It is never about love for the act or the woman, it’s our problems chasing us into these very obscene acts.

The reality is, I have never seen a happy ending in this sort of life. Making a living from dishonourable jobs will always keep you unhappy. The money will come and you think you will be happy but no that money could be more bitter than bitter leaf.

Pray not to eat your bread in sorrow and not to go to bed knowing the next day will be worse. Attributed to Oscar Wilde